Aaah, I am so stressed out because I'm seeing a new gyno for the first time tomorrow. I couldn't get an appt with the one I wanted (who's recced on a website listing feminist and progressive gynos [Edit: link added] in France) but it's her colleague in the same office.
I've been trying to get my tubes tied for the past 8 years. I was told to wait till I was 30 by my former gyno (who retired last December) and at 30 she told me to wait till I was 35 bc no surgeons would agree to the procedure.
I just want my agency. Is it too much to ask for?
Ugh.